The real cost of parenting: Here are the survey results

High cost of education is eating away the savings of most parents and the cost of raising a child does not become any less expensive in any phase of their lives. Here are our findings of a nationwide survey of 1,712 middle-to-upper class parents. They filled out specific segments pertaining to the age-group of their children-up to four years, five to 16 and 17 to 21 in what is probably the first ever survey of its kind


Read Real Cost of Parenting, our cover story.


Around 55% of our sample provided their average annual household income figures. Only 23.9% of these reported an annual household income of below Rs5 lakh; 28.6% were in the Rs5 lakh-Rs10 lakh bracket, another 33.3% earned between Rs10-Rs25 lakh, while as many as 14.3% earned over Rs25 lakh. It indicates that the respondents are mainly upper-income households with above-average awareness about sound financial products and investment choices as well as prudent borrowing habits.


The Baby Years (up to four years)


Starting with maternity, there is never a less expensive phase in a child’s life. In the early years, it is the cost of immunisation, minor illnesses and for middle-class parents, things like diapers, baby food, toys, childcare and birthday celebrations. But one in three respondents had not budgeted for the increase in monthly expenditure on the child.


Estimates of the cost of raising one child to the age of four years vary from 10% of the household income to as high as 25%. As many as 84% of Moneylife survey respondents felt that up to 10% of monthly family salary went towards monthly caretaker/crèche expenses for one child.


Over half the parents were paying off a home loan (52.3%) while 37.8% did not have a mortgage. Only 44.5% of parents have even a basic life insurance.


The School Years (5-16)


As children grow up, 94% of the parents listed children’s education and hobbies as their biggest concern. Clothes, entertainment (vacations, gizmos, pocket money), food, healthcare and housing followed—in that order. Almost one in five respondents has paid 25%-50% of their monthly income towards school entrance fee for each child.


Worries about the high cost of education makes parents in this group easy targets for selling child insurance plans. This set of parents say that they are already saving for higher education (90% list it as their first priority) followed by marriage expenses (50%) and then healthcare (20%). Interestingly, Indian parents do not see their expenses ending with educating their children. Some parents believe it is their duty to set up their children in business, purchase property for them or ensure a decent inheritance.


Depending on their income as well as the size of the family, parents estimate the cost of raising one child at 10% to 25% of household income. Only four out of 10 respondents are confident of having enough funds to pay the fees of a professional course for their child after the 12th class. But 74% of parents said that they would fund their child’s education through savings.


The preferred savings instruments for their own retirement planning are interesting.  Over half (54%) prefer public provident fund and employee provident funds. About 50% claim they invest in equity mutual funds, 46% say its property.


The number of parents paying off a mortgage dropped significantly (to 43%). The good news is that 46% of parents did not have any loan and were probably saving the maximum in this segment. Only 49.6% of parents have even a basic life insurance.


The Higher Education Years (17-21)


These are the years when costs really spiral, on all fronts. Here again, 94% of parents listed education and hobbies as the biggest expense.

Costs of private coaching, hobbies, mobiles, gadgets and entertainment (holidays with friends, eating out, movies and hobbies) rise rapidly and it is the time when poor financial planning of earlier years begins to be felt.


Over 45% of our respondents think that they should have planned better for children’s expenses, while 57% of the respondents are worried that their financial responsibilities may not be over even after a child turns 21. A scary 38% of the respondents said that they are tapping into funds they had saved for their own retirement years to pay for the professional education of their children.


Only 8% of the parents had their child take an education loan to pay for their professional courses. This underlines the image of Indian parents being willing to sacrifice almost everything for their children.


A good 57.8% of parents have no mortgage, but as many as 30% were still paying off home loans, in addition to meeting the high cost of education. Only 50.4% of parents have even a basic life insurance.





4 years ago

No wonder the parents of these children are not able to take care of their old parents - the grand parents of the child on the study chart.

Nupur pavan bang

4 years ago

I have a three year old and seems like this is our story! Unique survey!


4 years ago

Incentive to stick to Hum Do Humare Do...........


Dr VS Gogia

In Reply to Akhil 4 years ago

OR Hum Dono Ek Hamara/Hamari Ek ......


4 years ago

This is congruent with Indian National Policy since 1947 to uptrod the downtrodden and down trod the uptrodden and will ensure that there is a lot more of lower crust (dregs) to rise as India's ruling scum.


4 years ago

Great Survey. A real insight. If possible, please publish the monthly expenses on child for 5 to 21 years category also.

Leading activists call for countrywide public action against amendment in RTI Act

Aruna Roy leads the vociferous campaign in calling for citizens across the country through rallies, dharnas, signature campaigns and any other form of protests on 6th and 7th August, to oppose the attempt of political parties to amend the RTI law in Parliament

On 6th August, the first day of the monsoon session of the Parliament, leading RTI activists of the country will amplify their protest against the proposed plan of bringing an amendment in the Right to Information (RTI) Act, to keep political parties out of the gambit of the Act. The amendments are a sequel to the historic Central Information Commission’s (CIC) order, which held that political parties are public authorities under the RTI Act.


The National Campaign for People's Right to Information (NCPRI) led by Aruna Roy, Bharat Dogra, Shekhar Singh, Shailesh Gandhi and Harsh Mander Roy has urged activists and citizens to hold rallies, dharnas, meetings, signature campaigns or any other form of protest on 6th and 7th August to put public pressure on politicians who have united together, to allegedly bring in the amendments. Members of NCPRI will hold protests in front of the Parliament on 6th August.


The email sent by NCPRI states, “There is an urgent need for people to collectively and publicly oppose the proposed amendments to the RTI Act and safeguard this fundamental right. Please email us details of the public action being planned by you at [email protected] We will circulate the details widely.”


“The RTI Act is a landmark legislation which has empowered citizens to meaningfully participate in the functioning of our democracy. It has enabled people to seek transparency and accountability from the government and challenge corruption and arbitrary use of power.”


“The move of the government to amend the Act only goes to show that political parties are not willing to subject themselves to the transparency law and be open to public scrutiny under the Act. According to media reports, the government is planning to introduce amendments to the RTI Act in the forthcoming monsoon session of Parliament, which begins on the 6th of August 2013.’’


NCPRI has also started an online petition to the Prime Minister to oppose the proposed amendments. It requests citizens to sign and share the petition.


The members of NCPRI in their appeal to sign the petition said, “The RTI community has been very vigilant and has managed to prevent any amendment of the RTI Act, despite attempts from as early as 2006, a year after its passage in Parliament. Since the RTI act came into effect it has proved to be a powerful means to fight corruption and the arbitrary use of power. The vigilance and protest by the RTI community kept the establishment from proceeding with the dormant and explicit desire to curtail transparency and accountability entitlements…It is likely that these amendments will seek to not only address this issue but to curtail various other entitlements that have now established the ability of the RTI to fight corruption and the arbitrary use of power by the establishment.’’


It may be recalled that the landmark judgment that brought political parties under the ambit of RTI Act was delivered by the Central Information Commission (CIC) on 3 June 2013. The full bench consisted of Chief Central Information Commissioner (CCIC) Satyananda Mishra and Information Commissioners ML Sharma and Annapurna Dixit who delivered this judgment. The RTI applicants/ petitioners to CIC were Anil Bahirwal, national coordinator of Association of Democratic Reforms (ADR) and leading RTI activist Subhash Agrawal.


Following are the salient features of the CIC judgment which shows various areas in which political parties are “substantially’’ funded by the government and hence they are public authorities under RTI Act. (This has been culled from the http://adrindia.org website):

  1. Political Parties are Substantially Financed by the Central Government:

All India Congress Committee (AICC)/Indian National Congress (INC), Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP), Communist Party of India (Marxist)-CPI(M), Communist Party of India (CPI), Nationalist Congress Party (NCP) and Bahujan Samaj Party (BSP) have been substantially financed by the Central Government and hence considered public authority under section 2(h) (ii) of the RTI Act.


1. Allotment of land in Delhi: Indirect Financing of Political Parties by Allotment of large tracts of land to them in prime areas of Delhi either, free of cost, or at concessional rates.

2. Allotment of land in State Capitals: Allotments of land to Political Parties in State Capitals as well

3. Accommodations/Bungalows at Concessional Rentals: Directorate of Estate has allotted Bungalows to Political Parties in Delhi at highly concessional rates; this is also a form of indirect financing of the Parties.

4. Total Tax Exemption: Central Government also provides to Political Parties total exemption from the payment of income tax against the incomes of the Parties (under section 13 A of the Income Tax Act)

5. Free Airtime on Doordarshan and All India Radio (AIR): During Lok Sabha Elections and State Assembly Elections, Political Parties are allotted airtime slots on Doordarshan and All India Radio absolutely free of any charge

  1. Public Character:

The criticality of the role being played by these Political Parties in our democratic set up and the nature of duties performed by them also point towards their public character, bringing them in the ambit of section 2(h).

1. Political parties are the lifeblood of our polity:  Elections are contested on party basis. Political Parties affect the lives of citizens, directly or indirectly, in every conceivable way and are continuously engaged in performing public duty.

2. Political Parties are the unique institution: Political Parties are essentially political institutions and are non-governmental. Their uniqueness lies in the fact that in spite of being non-governmental, they come to wield directly or indirectly influence on the exercise of governmental power. It would be odd to argue that transparency is good for all State organs but not so good for Political Parties, which, in reality, control all the vital organs of the State.

3. Preamble of RTI Act: The preamble of RTI Act aims to create an ‘informed citizenry, contain corruption and hold government and their instrumentalities accountable to the governed. Needless to say, political parties are important political institutions and can play a critical role in heralding transparency in public life. Political Parties continuously perform public functions, which define parameters of governance and socio-economic development in the country.

  1. Constitutional/legal provisions

Political Parties have constitutional and legal rights-and-liabilities because of the following:

i. Registration of Political Parties: Political Parties are required to be registered with the ECI under section 29A of the R.P. Act, 1951 – a Central Legislation. An association or body gets the status of a political party on its registration. ECI awards symbols to Political Parties under the Election Symbols (Reservation and Allotment) Order, 1968, only after registration.

ii. Filing of Election Expense and Contributions: The ECI calls for details of expenses made by the Political Parties in the elections. Contributions of the value of Rs. 20,000/- and above received from any person or a Company by a Political Party are required to be intimated to ECI under section 29C of the R.P. Act.

iii. ECI superintendence: ECI is vested with the superintendence, direction and control of elections under Article 324 of the Constitution. ECI is also vested with the authority to suspend or withdraw recognition of a political party in certain contingencies.

iv. Tenth Schedule of Constitution: Political Parties can recommend disqualification of Members of the House in certain contingencies under the Tenth Schedule

  1. Performance of Public Duty

1. Setting up of CPIOs: The Presidents, General/Secretaries of these Political Parties are hereby directed to designate CPIOs and the Appellate Authorities at their headquarters in 06 weeks’ time. The CPIOs so appointed will respond to the RTI applications extracted in this order in 04 weeks’ time.

2. Voluntary Disclosure: The Presidents/General Secretaries of the above mentioned Political Parties are also directed to comply with the provisions of section 4(1) (b) of the RTI Act by way of making voluntary disclosures on the subjects mentioned in the said clause


Roadmap for the complaint

  • 29 October 2010 - RTI was filed by Association for Democratic Reforms to sought donations and contributions received by political parties
  • 8 November 2010 - CPI(M) responded and refused to come under RTI
  • 15 November 2010 -  INC responded and refused to come under RTI 
  • 27 November 2010 -  NCP responded and refused to come under RTI
  • 21 Match 2011 -  CPI furnished information:
  • BJP did not even respond to the RTI application. Neither did BSP.
  • March 2011 - Complaint with the CIC filed on the basis of above replies. 
  • 26 September 2012 - First hearing took place at CIC. The complaint was heard along with another complaint of Subhash Agarwal before a full bench considering the seriousness of the matter and its wider implications. Hearing was attended only by CPI and NCP. Additional submission was made by former Chief IT Commissioner Ashok Aneja.
  • 1 November 2012 - Second hearing took place at CIC and substantial funding given to political parties was discussed in detail.
  • 3 June 2013 - Landmark judgement delivered by full bench of the CIC


Contents of the online petition to PM



Shri Manmohan Singh,

Prime Minister,

Government of India

New Delhi


Dear Mr Prime Minister,


India’s governance is going through a credibility crisis as never before, in which all sectors of governance and social formations have been suspect. The political establishment has come in for most severe criticism, just and unjust.


Perhaps the only real argument for the credibility of the government continues to be the enactment and implementation of the RTI Act....


Perhaps the only real argument for the credibility of the government continues to be the enactment and implementation of the RTI Act. It has been an entitlement, which has kept the intent of a free and open system of governance afloat. The multiple uses of the Act to improve government functioning are so many that they defy enumeration. The use of the RTI is therefore seen as the one stated intent of the government to lay itself open to scrutiny, and therefore accountability.


The series of attempts to amend the Act, which have arisen periodically, have since 2006 been nullified to a large extent by public pressure as well as the political will of a part of the establishment and government.


It is reported that the Government is considering the introduction of a bill in Parliament to amend the RTI law, as a sharp reaction to the recent Central Information Commission order, which declared six political parties to be public authorities under the RTI Act. Such a move to amend the Act will reinforce and confirm the suspicions of many that the political establishment intends to cover acts of corruption and arbitrary use of power.


We, as citizens of India, empowered by the RTI Act, demand that it not be amended. The Act has enabled the making of informed choices and strengthened participatory democracy; by enabling the citizens of India to monitor and access services throughout the country. Any amendment to the RTI Act would undermine and weaken the process of realizing various constitutional promises. In 2009, when amendments were being proposed to the RTI Act, the concerned minister of the government had assured Parliament, in response to a question, that “Non- Governmental Organisations and Social activists will be consulted on the proposed amendments.” We would, therefore, expect the government to hold wide ranging public discussions before they think of amending the law in any way.


We are confident that the government will recognise the force of our demand and not take steps to amend and thereby dilute the Right to Information law, which has been acknowledged in India and abroad, as an affirmation of the right of Indian citizens to participate in, and monitor, democratic governance.



[Your name]

(Vinita Deshmukh is the consulting editor of Moneylife, an RTI activist and convener of the Pune Metro Jagruti Abhiyaan. She is the recipient of prestigious awards like the Statesman Award for Rural Reporting which she won twice in 1998 and 2005 and the Chameli Devi Jain award for outstanding media person for her investigation series on Dow Chemicals. She co-authored the book “To The Last Bullet - The Inspiring Story of A Braveheart - Ashok Kamte” with Vinita Kamte and is the author of “The Mighty Fall”.)




4 years ago

Thank you .Whatever the costs the campaign must go on to force the Govt not to amend the RTI Act . Law makers cannot be law breakers .


4 years ago

The roll back of "liberalization" continues with India's ruling scum taking the gloves off their Animal Farm Constitution and empowering the engines of extortion:(Can' they make this retrospective like Income Tax or nationalize 25% of all RTIs like primary education?)

Bharti Airtel Q1 net profit falls 9.6% to Rs688.9 crore

The company’s mobile revenues in the country grew on the back of jump in average revenue per user-ARPU to Rs200 in June quarter

Private sector telecom service provider Bharti Airtel on Wednesday reported a 9.6% fall in net profit to Rs688.9 crore for the first quarter ended 30 June 2013.


The company had reported a net profit of Rs762.2 crore in the corresponding period last financial year.


This is a 14th consecutive fall in quarterly profits of the company.


Total income of the company, however, was up 9.3% at Rs20,299.5 crore for the reporting quarter as against Rs18,570.3 crore in the same period last fiscal.


“Our results for the quarter reflect the overall stability of our operations, and demonstrate the potential for growth, particularly seeing robust data growth across all geographies,” company’s chairman Sunil Bharti Mittal said in a statement.


The company’s mobile revenues in the country grew on the back of jump in ARPU (average revenue per user) to Rs200 in Q1 of 2014, up by Rs16 over corresponding period last year.


“Results for Airtel India reflect rationality returning to the sector which needs to be complemented by a more enabling regulatory environment for a deeper penetration of telecom and broadband services,” Mittal added.


Derivative and exchange fluctuation losses during the quarter stood at Rs534 crore, mainly caused by rupee depreciation, compared to gains of Rs160 crore in the same period last year.


The net debt of the company has been reduced to Rs58,380.6 crore as on 30 June 2013 on account of additional equity infusion of Rs6,796 crore by Qatar Foundation Endowment.


The data costumer base of the company grew 20% to reach 46,584, of which 6,796 are 3G customers. Data users comprise 24.4% of the total customer base of the company, the statement said.


Airtel said data now contributes 7.4% of the mobile revenues.


India EBITDA margin improved from 31.9% last year to 34.9%, while International margins improved from 24% to 25.4%, it added.


The company also said its board has approved the sale or transfer of its data centre undertaking (Business) by way of slump sale to its newly incorporated wholly-owned subsidiary Nxtra Data.


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